Monday, February 18, 2013

Lent 2013

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Last year it was very clear that God wanted me to give up worrying for my Lenten journey and I did just that. Now, I’m not perfect and I still worry some, but I have definitely learned how to nip it in the bud and how to allow myself to feel God’s peace. I’ve really been seeking what God wants to instill in me during this Lenten season and I just can’t narrow it down and we are almost one week into it. I really want to be a more self disciplined person and I want to find joy in daily life no matter what the circumstances, but I can’t really think of something to give up.

Then it hits me. Hits me straight in the face (as I’m typing this actually). God wants me to rely on Him. Give Him myself. Give up my stubborn streak and my independence. Let God take the lead. I mean, I pray about my decisions and I do seek His guidance, but there is so much that I try to handle myself before I take it to Him. Sort of like I’m an inconvenience to Him and I need to try to handle it myself before I bother Him with it. God is perfect and He isn’t inconvenienced by me asking for help or advice. He has given me a book to use to seek those truths. He has given me a way to communicate with Him.

So there you have it. My Lenten journey will be comprised of God teaching me to sit on the sidelines. I’m going to truly seek His guidance in all. I’m going to try to focus on scriptures I know and learn new ones to help me when I need to know which way to turn. I’m going to utilize more often that open line I have to Him all day.

Here I am God. You are in control. You’ve got this. I place my full trust in You.

Proverbs 3: 5-6
Trust in the Lord with all your heart;
Do not depend on your own understanding.
Seek His will in all you do,
And He will show you which path to take.

Wednesday, February 06, 2013

Our gluten free journey thus far

So we've been gluten free for a few weeks. We've had a few bad days and are still working on cross contamination stuff, but for the most part, we are there. I know everyone really wants to know how we are feeling, so I won't beat around the bush.

The first week wasn't easy. I wanted to eat every starchy or sugary thing that I could put my hands on. I was exhausted and felt horrible. By the 2nd week, I felt like a new woman. I am the type of person who drinks a minimum of 2 cups of coffee every morning, just to function. I literally do nothing before my coffee. Since going gluten free, I've noticed three really big changes in myself.

1. I don't need coffee to function. I still drink a cup, but generally I can unload my dishwasher and get breakfast ready without coffee. I've even been singing in the morning before my coffee. Words that I thought I would never say/type.
2. I am sleeping better! I am falling to sleep within 20 minutes of going to bed and most often before midnight. Yeah, I thought I would never say or type those words.
3. My mood swings are more manageable. I am not perfect, but seriously I am doing better. I don't feel nearly as down and I feel a general just kind of happy feeling...or as Phil from DD would say, "happy, happy, happy".

Chris
I can't really speak for him, but he has way more energy. He is motivated to work on home projects quite a bit lately. He is drinking less coffee. His appetite has decreased and he has lost weight. His digestive issues have improved as well. He doesn't want to eat gluten again because he feels that much better.

Harrison
He is sleeping much better. He has decreased to one mg of melatonin at night rather than two mgs. Ideally, we will have him off of it completely by the end of the year. His rest throughout the night as been amazingly better as well. He was struggling to sleep a full 11 hours and now he is easily getting 11.5-12 hours again. His eczema and itching is almost non existent. He would always get eczema flare ups on his bottom and itch late at night. He doesn't have any eczema and the only night he has itched was the day he consumed gluten. Coincidence...I doubt it.

Kadie
Her meltdowns have slightly decreased and she is eating a little better. She is our child that only wanted carbs and sweets. She will actually eat eggs now. She has always been a good sleeper and generally sleeps 12 hours without issue.

Sam
I've seen the biggest improvement with Sam. Since December, until recently, he has had very loose stools and they are almost completely back to normal. He also has not been waking anymore between 2-3am. His 5am daily wake up time has ended. He will usually wake up between 6:00-7:00 wanting milk and will go back to sleep for another hour or two. This is a HUGE improvement because this mama was a zombie!

I'm very certain we are going to have to cut out dairy if it isn't raw. Harrison had a very obvious reaction to dairy when he was a preschooler. He actually tested positive for a slight allergy to it when he was  2. I am fairly certain, he still can't tolerate it and just manifests  differently now. So removing most dairy from his diet will be something I start working on next week. I'm going to test him with only raw dairy and see if it makes a difference.

I'm also monitoring everyone's weight closely Chris has lost somewhere in the neighborhood of 10 lbs and I've lost 3 lbs. Harrison is between 50-51 lbs/49.5 inches. Kadie is between 40-41/41.5 inches lbs. Sam is 28 lbs/no clue how tall. Harrison is definitely underweight and has been for several years. Kadie is average and I'm not sure on Sam (he won't stand still enough to get an accurate height). I would love to see Harrison gain some weight!

I would suggest for anyone who wants to try going gluten free, to go about it in a one meal at a time approach. I realize cold turkey works for some, but it was too overwhelming for me. We focused on breakfast during the first week and learned how to make yummy waffles, muffins, and pancakes. The following week, we worked on GF bread and other replacements. We actually ended up doing dinner the same week as lunch, because we weren't too bad with consuming gluten filled dinners. We've replaced all of our favorite snacks as well.

Here are some meal ideas with links to recipes I've tried and like. 

Breakfast:
Muffins (with coconut flour), Pumpkin muffins
Pancakes (with GF AP flour), Pancakes (with almond flour),
Waffles
Bacon and Eggs
Lots of fresh fruit

Lunch:
Sandwiches
Tuna
Avocado
Tomato Soup
Salad
Lots of fresh fruit
Salad with protein
Tortillas

Snacks:
Cheese crackers

Dinner:
Tacos
Potato Soup
Cheesy Beef & Rice
Slow Cooker Roast Chicken and Gravy
Meatloaf

Desserts:
Chunky Monkey Cookies
Giant Vanilla Bean Chocolate Chunk Cookies

There are tons more out there. I will update as I can. I would suggest looking on Pinterest or doing a paleo/primal meal search. There are really a lot of options and we don't feel deprived. 




Monday, January 14, 2013

Our food journey

I figured it was time to write a blog post about our current food journey, since it consumes my free time (researching and preparing it). Here ya go...

We started on a journey to healthier food about 6ish years ago. Our start was to cook everything at home and use the organic things that we could afford. We didn't completely eliminate boxed or convenience food, but we did cut them out drastically. We started growing taking more of an interest in gardening and herbs and generally tried to make better choices. This also started my journey to living a more natural life and I embraced my inner hippie.

As of last year, we were using a lot of organic produce and dairy. The only convenience foods we consumed on a regular basis were cereals, breads, crackers, and cheeses. For the most part, we cooked from scratch with wholesome ingredients. However, by fall I really had to evaluate our eating habits. We had developed some terrible habits and I'm not even sure how it happened. My weakness is coke. I love an ice cold coke. Cokes can't even really be justified in my opinion unless you are having a "treat". We were eating way too much fast food because of our busy lifestyle. I was burned out completely on meal planning and cooking because of our picky eaters. However, I started realizing that we all were feeling rundown and getting sick way more than usual. I am a firm believer that the food we eat is the first thing to evaluate when your health is sub par.

We started being diligent about not using food products with more than 5 ingredients. A blog I found helpful with recommitting to this journey is right HERE. I entered research mode on our food again. Even though we were eating pretty healthy (limited preservatives, almost no food dyes, a lot of organic/natural, whole grains, etc), there was still room for improvement. As we entered December, we ate horribly. Fast food several times a week due to our crazy busy schedule and way too many holiday treats. I started praying about direction where to go and here I am.

2013 Food Goals
-Absolutely no fast food in the month of January  (really I plan to try to keep this up all year).
-Transition to 100% traditional real/whole foods diet.
-Transition to gluten free (for health reasons that we feel will help all of us).
-Work harder on meeting daily water intake.
-Have a kick ass garden this year. 

Here is our plan:

-No fast food - I'm literally planning every meal and snack for our week. On our busy days, we eat at home quick foods (like sandwiches or wraps). We are making sure to keep chopped fruits and veggies in our fridge. I look at my week and write down a detailed schedule of when I need to soak beans or make a new batch of muffins. We were consuming fast food because of lack of planning. This involves very detailed menus and meal planning and grocery trips. I'm not going to lie - this is time consuming. I shop for several hours and it takes at least an hour (maybe two) to get our weekly menu down. I feel like this will get easier as I build a database of meals we like. The weekly food prep definitely takes up more time, but it just has to be an investment of time that you are willing to make. It may mean that you have to give up an hour or two of vegging time. In the long run, it is worth it. Right now, we do a lot of fruit/veggie chopping on Sunday nights. We are making sure that Chris has a lunch packed every night after dinner. On busy mornings, I make breakfast ahead of time. This also includes make bigger batches of homemade muffins/pancakes/waffles to freeze and pull out when we are in a hurry. We pack meals or hearty snacks if we are running around during meal time. We have made it 14 days so far!

100% traditional/whole foods diet - We are using the Weston A Price Foundation for our guide. This encompasses eating whole, unprocessed foods. Consuming meats and eggs from pasture-fed animals. Eating non farm raised fish. Eating full fat milk products from pastured cows and preferably raw or fermented. Using animal fats liberally. Using traditional vegetable oils only. Adding fermented cod liver oil to our diet. Eating fresh fruits and veggies. We are eliminating whole grains, but will be preparing our legumes and nuts by soaking them. Making our own meat stocks. Using filtered water for cooking and drinking. Using unrefined salts and a good variety of herbs and spices. Using natural sweeteners in moderation.

I've been trying to eliminate all processed foods for several months, so that part won't be challenging. We have found a source for local pasture fed meat and poultry. I've stopped buying my organic meats and poultry from Costco and switched to a local source. It actually isn't any more expensive since I'm buying straight from the farmer. The eggs are a bit more difficult to locate at this time of the year, but Organic Valley eggs are the next best thing, which I can find from Earth Fare. However, at nearly $5 a dozen, we aren't consuming as many eggs right now. We don't consume that much fish right now, but that will probably be a goal I set for the future. We are on a waiting list for fresh milk from a farm in Dalton, so until then we are drinking organic whole milk. The animal fats thing is very new to us (other than butter). We are using up the butter we have now and switching to Kerrygold (which comes from pasture fed cows in Ireland). I'm very new to the whole lard and tallow thing. We are trying our best to stick to Coconut Oil and EVOO. The fermented cod liver oil is another very new concept which we will embrace in February. We are going to slowly work our way up to that one because I have a feeling everyone will hate it. The fresh fruits and veggies is something that we were already doing, but making an effort to be better at it. I'm learning more about better ways to soak our beans so that they don't cause gas. The meat stock thing is a foreign concept as well. We are also already using filtered water and the salts, herbs, and spices. We are trying harder to eliminate sweeteners as well. I'm just really going to break it down month by month and focus on changing one thing at a time. My ultimate goal is 80/20. We will eat like this 80% of the time to make up for the times when we can't. I think by making these changes, we will see our health continue to improve.

Gluten free - We tried to go gluten free about 18 months ago. It just didn't work, but we didn't do it right. This time, I've read more and have a better handle on doing it. Why are we doing it? Well, I've been praying almost all of 2012 that God would lead us to this path, if it was meant to be. There are many that claim a gluten free (and usually casein free) diet can help children on the spectrum.  I personally feel as if I've gotten confirmation that this is the way to go. How is this going to help him? Well, the theory is that kids with autism react differently to gluten/casein. Their brains treat the proteins like they are false opiate-like chemicals, which exacerbates autistic symptoms.  Basically, the kind of positive responses that many claim are: increase in social behaviors, eye contact, engagement, attention span, and social responsiveness. It can also help with ADD/ADHD - both of which affects Chris and me and possibly our daughter. Several of us have sensory issues - again, this is supposed to help. And lastly, Sam has early signs of asthma - going gluten free could possibly help. We've decided to do it as a family of five, so that we can avoid cross contaminants. We also feel like since all of us could possibly benefit, we are going to strive to be gluten free for a minimum of six months. It will probably take us at least a month to get all of the gluten out of our diet. That being said, we will make a decision sometime this fall about whether to continue our gluten free path. I should also add that we will make a decision about casein at a later time.

Water intake - We've switched to filtered water, which already helps. We've put it in a nifty little water spout container in our refrigerator, which the kids love. We pull out water bottles first thing in the morning and fill them up and just sip on them throughout the day. Most of the sources that I've read say that kids and adults should drink at least at least half of your body weight in ounces. So if Harrison weighs 50 pounds, he should drink 25 ounces of water a day. This would obviously increase with more physical activity or hotter weather. So we are just trying to be more aware of water intake. I definitely feel more energetic when I drink water. I personally have to set mini goals for myself.  I try to have at least 2 (water bottles) down by lunch time. I drink my 3rd between lunch and dinner and a 4th with dinner and before bed. It doesn't always work, but I certainly can tell a huge difference on days I'm hydrated.

Kick ass garden - Well, we just have to do it. We are getting dirt for our raised beds this month. We are starting seedlings soon as well. We have started planning what we want. Chris built a really neat bean tee-pee. For us, we just have to verbalize and follow through. We are going to tag team garden care and praying for a fruitful small back yard garden. We've both been pinning things on our garden boards on Pinterest and I feel our hearts are really into this year.

I plan on blogging again this week on some of the more detailed things I'm doing to meal plan and prepare food to keep us on track with healthy food eating.

Also, here is the kicker. My food goals have absolutely nothing to do with weight loss. I just want to nourish my body properly and feel healthy. If I happen to lose weight, it is an added bonus.

Are you doing anything this year to get your family in a healthier way of eating?