Looking back over a year ago when I started thinking about going to work part-time, I can see that we were being prepared for what is now our reality. My family transitioned really well to my working part-time. Chris and I worked opposite schedules and that really was awful. I don't know how any of my friends do that for extended periods. We knew that our opposite shift thing couldn't work forever and that we were growing tired of that arrangement. After the spring, when we had some foundation work estimated for our house, we realized that we had to figure out something. The repairs needed on our home to get it ready for the market were just too many. Even though we had made great progress with our debt snowball and had built up a little bit of savings, it was just too much. We looked at some financing options, but they just didn't work for us. I threw it out there, working full-time that is, but Chris immediately dismissed it. Now rewind to last fall. There was a full-time job that I was very interested in, but sadly I wasn't considered for it. When we thought it might have been an option, we had already considered how that would impact school for our kids and all of those other things. But needless to say, it didn't work, so we went back to what we were doing. So, I kept throwing it out there to get Chris used to the idea. Then I contacted one of my friends where I used to work to find out if they were hiring anytime soon. She contacted another friend to see what was open, and that friend told me that I needed to apply immediately for my old job. So I didn't have much time to think about it. I filled out the application online and worked on my resume, which needed tons of work and updating. I heard back pretty soon and was asked to do a phone interview. I finished my phone interview right before we went on our big summer vacation. During our vacation I had to do complete some more things to be considered for the job. As soon as we got back from our vacation, we registered our children for school at Daisy. Thankfully, because Chris teaches at SDHS, our kids were eligible to go to Daisy without a hardship. Just a few days later we went for our annual 4th of July trip to visit my sister outside of Memphis. I heard back from while we were gone that I was getting a second interview. I had my second interview as soon as we got back from visiting my sister. Then the waiting game started and I started processing what had all happened so quickly. I found out about a week or so later that I had be re-hired. I forgot to mention that we moved back into our old house during all of this.
So just in case that was muddled....here are all of the changes.
1. I am leaving my part-time evening job and going back to working full-time during the day.
2. We are no longer home-schooling. Our kids are all going to be in school all day long.
3. We moved back into our old house, so we could renovate it over the next year.
I' m a delayed processor so all of this really didn't hit me until early August. Of course, I started to freak out questioning whether or not we made the right decision. Then I had some very dear friends remind me of how absolutely perfectly everything fell into place. And not to be a negative Nelly, but rarely does anything fall into place like this for us. So we definitely feel we are on the right path.
We started the process of moving back into our house on July 17th. It took a couple of weeks though. Chris started back to school on August 6th, which was also my last day at GCC. Sam also started daycare that same day. The older two kids started school on August 13th. My job started on August 17th. We also found out on August 14th, that Sam was accepted into Pre-K at Daisy. He had a couple of phase-in days and then started full-time on August 28th. It was good move for him because he was the oldest by 2 years in daycare, so now he is with more kids his own age. He doesn't love it, but he also doesn't hate it.
So I sit here after my first month following all of these changes. I'm exhausted right now. I'm still processing all of these changes. We are all actually really tired. I can also see that we are going to need to revamp our after-school/extracurricular activities. This is all still very new and we are all still transitioning. We are definitely used to having more freedom and flexibility in our schedule.
Here's the good stuff.
1. All of the children have made friends and they did so very quickly. The older kids both have some "best friends."
2. Chris is nearby the kids at school. He has a student walking them over there each morning and he picks them up in the afternoons.
4. I am alone in my van every day. People, this hasn't happened regularly in over 7 years. I can listen to whatever music I want. I can ride in complete silence. I can listen to Harry Potter audio books without interruption. It's pretty amazing.
5. I am around adults again. I'm enjoying getting to know my new coworkers and making new friends.
6. I have a full-time income again!
7. We will start renovating this house very soon. Our foundation repair starts the first week of October and then everything else will follow suit.
Here's where we need prayers.
1. Harrison is doing well in school, but time at home is rough because he holds it together at school all day. Therefore, he unleashes the beast on us.
2. Time management in general.
3. Sam adjusting to Pre-K.
4. Some upcoming medical things for Kadie, which I will post about at a later time.
5. Chris transitioning to being with our children a whole lot more.
6. Time to do all of the renovating. Our goal is to have this house ready for the market by late spring/early summer.
7. For me not to feel guilt about going back to work and accepting this was a good move for our family.
Today, Sam missed school because he was sick. In the past, other than illness being inconvenient and hard on our kids, it wasn't a huge deal. It always fell on me and that was okay. I'm still in training and I can't take off time, so Chris had to stay with him and take him to the doctor. That was really hard for me today. I've always been the primary caregiver, so this is a definite change in gears. It was difficult. Really difficult.
I'm also very thankful. I'm thankful that the older children LOVE school. I'm thankful that everything at my job is coming back super quickly. I'm thankful for the love and support we have received during all of these transitions. I'm thankful for the peacefulness that I feel knowing that everything is going to be alright.
In other news, we saw the Avett Brothers this past weekend and they were AMAZING. Seeing them perform never gets old. They played a new song for us and I cannot wait to hear the rest. Fall is approaching and I'm super excited about the fun fall weather things to do.
Well that is all. Until next time.
~Peace out homies.
So just in case that was muddled....here are all of the changes.
1. I am leaving my part-time evening job and going back to working full-time during the day.
2. We are no longer home-schooling. Our kids are all going to be in school all day long.
3. We moved back into our old house, so we could renovate it over the next year.
I' m a delayed processor so all of this really didn't hit me until early August. Of course, I started to freak out questioning whether or not we made the right decision. Then I had some very dear friends remind me of how absolutely perfectly everything fell into place. And not to be a negative Nelly, but rarely does anything fall into place like this for us. So we definitely feel we are on the right path.
We started the process of moving back into our house on July 17th. It took a couple of weeks though. Chris started back to school on August 6th, which was also my last day at GCC. Sam also started daycare that same day. The older two kids started school on August 13th. My job started on August 17th. We also found out on August 14th, that Sam was accepted into Pre-K at Daisy. He had a couple of phase-in days and then started full-time on August 28th. It was good move for him because he was the oldest by 2 years in daycare, so now he is with more kids his own age. He doesn't love it, but he also doesn't hate it.
So I sit here after my first month following all of these changes. I'm exhausted right now. I'm still processing all of these changes. We are all actually really tired. I can also see that we are going to need to revamp our after-school/extracurricular activities. This is all still very new and we are all still transitioning. We are definitely used to having more freedom and flexibility in our schedule.
Here's the good stuff.
1. All of the children have made friends and they did so very quickly. The older kids both have some "best friends."
2. Chris is nearby the kids at school. He has a student walking them over there each morning and he picks them up in the afternoons.
4. I am alone in my van every day. People, this hasn't happened regularly in over 7 years. I can listen to whatever music I want. I can ride in complete silence. I can listen to Harry Potter audio books without interruption. It's pretty amazing.
5. I am around adults again. I'm enjoying getting to know my new coworkers and making new friends.
6. I have a full-time income again!
7. We will start renovating this house very soon. Our foundation repair starts the first week of October and then everything else will follow suit.
Here's where we need prayers.
1. Harrison is doing well in school, but time at home is rough because he holds it together at school all day. Therefore, he unleashes the beast on us.
2. Time management in general.
3. Sam adjusting to Pre-K.
4. Some upcoming medical things for Kadie, which I will post about at a later time.
5. Chris transitioning to being with our children a whole lot more.
6. Time to do all of the renovating. Our goal is to have this house ready for the market by late spring/early summer.
7. For me not to feel guilt about going back to work and accepting this was a good move for our family.
Today, Sam missed school because he was sick. In the past, other than illness being inconvenient and hard on our kids, it wasn't a huge deal. It always fell on me and that was okay. I'm still in training and I can't take off time, so Chris had to stay with him and take him to the doctor. That was really hard for me today. I've always been the primary caregiver, so this is a definite change in gears. It was difficult. Really difficult.
I'm also very thankful. I'm thankful that the older children LOVE school. I'm thankful that everything at my job is coming back super quickly. I'm thankful for the love and support we have received during all of these transitions. I'm thankful for the peacefulness that I feel knowing that everything is going to be alright.
In other news, we saw the Avett Brothers this past weekend and they were AMAZING. Seeing them perform never gets old. They played a new song for us and I cannot wait to hear the rest. Fall is approaching and I'm super excited about the fun fall weather things to do.
Well that is all. Until next time.
~Peace out homies.
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